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Kind Words to Yourself

Say one kind thing to yourself after every ball, good or not.

By Coach Evan Waechtler Youth coach (U11, Cache Valley, Utah) and founder of SSTracker Updated October 30, 2026

Set up

After each ball, say something kind, like "nice try" or "good swing".

Core: Full routine. Beat your own calmest routine.

Ages
7 and up
Time
6 min
Players
Just you
Space
Gym or court
Bring
Bowling ball, lane
Level · skill
Beginner · Focus

The steps

How it works

  1. After each ball, say something kind, like "nice try" or "good swing".
  2. Clap for teammates too.
  3. Bowl 10 balls.
  4. Notice how you feel at the end.

Coaching point

Be your own teammate.

Safety: Never step past the foul line; the lane is oily and slippery. Wait for the pinsetter to finish before you bowl, and never go down the lane.

Make it fun

Play it, don't drill it

Game version

Routine game: make a short routine (breath, aim, roll) and teach it to your partner. Swap, and notice how calm it feels.

Challenge

Pick a level: Less (one breath), Core (full routine), More (the routine after a miss). Beat your own calmest routine.

Story

You are a pilot running through the pre-flight checks.

My best

Beat your own count

Beat your own calmest routine. Only your own number counts: today against last time.

Practice makes progress

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